Tuesday, January 22, 2008

The Meaning of My Life

Is human life just a dream? Or are we submerged by our feelings, by our loves and hates, by our ideas of good, bad, beautiful or awful? There are billions of people in this planet. Everyone has their own life, whether the life is meaningful or not, is not for us to decide. In my opinion, the meaning of life is joy and feelings of harmony connected to happiness. Without the happiness, life loses meaning.

I was born in a small village in Malaysia. My father was a rubber tapper.From the age of 7, I started to help my father in the rubber plantation. Besides study, helping my parent in the plantation was the only leisure activity I had. From young, I have learned to save, because it was my father “hard earned” money. I understand that the only way to achieve a better life is by gaining a knowledge. Thus, since young, my only dream was graduate from university.

After finished my primary education, I continued my secondary education at Malacca. From there, I have learned to be independent. Thanks to my childhood experience, from the schoolwork to the housework, I was able to manage everything. I continued my A-Level studies at Kuala Lumpur, and my only dream was further my studies overseas. But I was wrong, and I realized that my dream becomes a burden to my father. I was regret that causing my parent felt awkward. But I do not give up my dream. Thus I joined Singapore Polytechnic.


After graduate from polytechnic, I started to work and saved my university’s education fee. Now as an undergraduate student, I feel grateful to my parent which created such a challenge environment for me. Without those experience, I won’t be able to understand what my life is, I won’t be able to value what I have and the people around me. I have learned not to give up my dream. No matter what problem is it, I choose to face it and solve it. I have learned to create my own life, and this life will always be meaningful and colorful to me whenever I wake up in the morning.


Happiness or unhappiness is depends on our own decision. I always choose to be happy and bring my happiness to the people around me. Having someone you love and who love you is a great happiness. I think the happiness from the heart is the most meaningful. Never giving up my dream, no matter how tough is my life and what will happen in future. Work for my dream and I will never regret.


Sometimes, the life is uncertain. Only your own heart, your own experiences teach you to make a decision for our life. Do not afraid about your future, start working what you dream now and there is your future.

6 comments:

Brad Blackstone said...

This is a very beautiful and inspirational first post(even while there are a few language problems). You include in the autobiography an emotionally charged description of your rural childhood, and you not only gain the reader's sympathy but admiration as you present the manner in which you have been motivated top develop then follow a worthy dream.

Thank you very much for your effort here! I look forward to reading more of ytour writing this term.

Ken Yeo said...

I agree that doing what you love and loving what you do makes life more meaningful than a life without motivation... Though successes are sweet, failures do have their use... To remind us that in life no matter what we do, as long as we believe in that thing we do, we should not give up...

Great post... Makes me motivated and also serve me as a reminder... Cheers...

Aaron Zhao (EG1471) said...

It is a beautiful writing, very smooth and fluent. I will learn from you and work hard to achieve my goal!

Tsyr Harn said...

After reading your post, I find that you got a strong mind and a great personalities. It's nice that people found the meaning of life as long as you believe light will always shine on your path.

Serene said...

Hi Jen..
Your parents must be very proud to have such a filial and understanding daughter like you..
Unlike you, I have never got to worry about my education fees and daily expenses. Hence, I tend to take things for granted. But your inspiring post served as a wake-up call for me.
With such a positive attitude towards life, I believe you will have a very bright future=)

x-[N]^[Y]-x said...

It's good to have big dreams because they add colour to our lives and it gives us the motivation to live on.

A very motivational post.

=] TiffaNY